Follow-up

I've just glanced at my comments from the last post, and would like to attempt to stop a feud that seems to be brewing.  To my anonymous commenter who has suggested counseling at the Women's Help Center - thank you for your concern.  I am going to counseling, though where I go is of no business to anyone.  I hate the term "religious person", because what I am is a Christian, as is my husband.  Mistakes have been made, yes, but there is hope.  I have not forgiven my husband because I feel like I have to, or because I'm afraid to be on my own, but because I love him, and am still in love with him, and because he is a caring and wonderful father, and a safe haven for his children.  My girls are in absolutely no danger in this house, and neither am I.  My pain is mine to deal with, and God will help me through.  My thoughts are always of my daughters and their well-being, and I do not appreciate comments reminding me to "think of the children" because that is what I always do.  I know that I have published my thoughts in a public forum, and I cannot keep anyone from giving their input, but I can choose to whom I listen, and I will not listen to negativity about Mike, beause I am in complete support of him, no matter his past offenses.